Dating in High School

Many people think dating in high school is bad because you don’t know what you want and you almost always end up getting hurt. These may be true but that doesn't mean that it’s wrong to date in high school. Having a high school sweet heart can help those four long years go by pretty quickly. Not to mention that it helps you with your social skills with the opposite sex.

Dating and having an actual relationship with someone is a new thing for freshman and even sophomores; it can seem kind of scary at times. Once you get experience talking to the other sex it becomes easier. However, freshman tend to think that having a boyfriend is more important than other things such as school, family, and even your best friends. If your best friend is obsessed with their boyfriend and refuses to spend time with you, just let nature take its course. When they eventually break up, she’ll come around. Boyfriends will come and go but best friends are for life. A girls’ first boyfriend is very important to her; she’s never felt this way before and he makes her feel special. She wants it to last forever. But unfortunately they don’t and once you've had a few relationships, you’ll begin to realize that yes it’s a big deal to have a boyfriend, but not something that should control your whole life.

If you’re one of those fortunate people to have a long lasting relationship, consider yourself lucky. Many high school relationships don’t last more than a few months, if that. It’s mostly because when you find someone that catches your eye, you flirt with them for a while and if they respond, they’ll hopefully ask you out. When you agree to go on a date with them, you don’t entirely know the person. You know them in a classroom or practice, not in a restaurant or public place. You don’t know their background or how much experience they have had in life. The first date is for getting to know the other person. However on most first dates, you’re awkward and shy. You don’t know how to act around someone you like in public and you spend more time worrying about what he thinks about you than getting to know him as a person. After dating for a week or two, you begin to realize he’s not everything you expected him to be. Don’t feel bad if this is you; it’s totally normal. Just make an effort to get to know him before you commit to anything.

Dating in high school proves to help kids with their social skills, especially with the opposite sex. It makes them more aware of what they’re saying and more confident in their actions and speaking. It’s natural for girls to feel shy around boys, but hopefully with a little practice that awkwardness will fade away. It also prepares you for a relationship in the real world after high school. If someone has no social contact with the opposite sex, they will have a hard time keeping a girlfriend or boyfriend. Those types of people are going through the awkward and shy stage later in life, while other people have had a head start because they've already went through that stage in high school.

Dating in high school is not for everyone. It protects your heart from getting hurt, it keeps your mind focused and it doesn't necessarily mean you don’t know how to talk to boys. Some of your best friends may be boys and there’s nothing wrong with that.

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